[Newspoetry] U.S. poet laureate invokes troubling metaphor

[John]

>> "losing virginity" really means "having sex for the first time" so it fits
>> #2 but not #3, and not #1   (unless it is done wrongly, but it doesn't have
>> to be)
> 
> One can lose one's virginity more than once?

One can have sex more than once.