[Makerspace-keymembers] (IMPORTANT!) No Fly List

[elizaBeth Simpson]

Hi folks,

(thanks Jeff!) Caveat: I don't know anything about the situation, except
that it's my understanding that any keymember can act to ban someone and
then the group will figure what's next, so kudos on doing that.

Has he been told directly about the policy and about the decision that he
should not be in the space?
Does anyone know how to reach him? It would be good for us and him to be
proactive (I can be part of that) This will be good both to prevent weird
interactions if he shows up not knowing he shouldn't, and also to do the
deeper work of letting him know the context of what's up.
Can there be a specific term/process (i.e. he's banned from the space and
should be let know, and can contact the key list for further action/info?)

Does anyone know how to reach the person he's been pursing so that she can
be in on the situation? And/or, was this her request? (I don't know who's
on this list, so maybe don't mention her name here, for confidentiality)

I've got some stuff from WAY back when the IMC was at 218 main that we used
in a similar situation (though it was a woman stalking a guy). I can try to
find it for reference.

For a safe(er) space,

elizaBeth

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On Sat, Feb 28, 2015 at 4:06 PM, Jeffrey Putney <quaker at gmail.com> wrote:

> Hey everyone,
>
> Unfortunately we had an incident in the space this morning with an
> individual who I think should no longer be welcome at the space. He has
> apparently been stalking a women who occasionally attends the space. He was
> not threatening in any way but he also made it clear he was there looking
> the person he's been stalking.
>
> His name is Nathan Lejeune and I've attached photos of him below.
>
> I don't think I even need to reference our Anti-Harassment policy to
> justify why he is should no longer be welcome. But I do think we should
> talk about how to handle such issues at the next member meeting.
>
> In the mean time if he comes by the space here are some ideas on how to
> get rid of him depending on your level of comfort in the situation:
>  1. Let him know he's not welcome and ask him to leave.
>  2. Close the space.
>
> If you feel in anyway unsafe leave the space and contact the police. And
> if you do see him please email this keystaff list ASAP.
>
> These are just my thoughts on how to handle it, anyone else have
> suggestions?
>
> Thanks,
>   Jeff
>
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